Confusing General with Universal Statements.
Critics often jump to the conclusion that unqualified statements
admit no exceptions. They seize upon verses that offer general truths and then
point with glee to obvious exceptions. Such statements are only intended to be
generalizations.
The Book of Proverbs has many of these. Proverbial sayings, by
their very nature, offer general guidance, not universal assurance. They are
rules for life, but rules that admit of exceptions. Proverbs 16:7 affirms that
“when a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace
with him.” This obviously was not intended to be a universal truth. Paul was
pleasing to the Lord and his enemies stoned him (Acts 14:19). Jesus was
pleasing the Lord, and his enemies crucified him. Nonetheless, it is a general
truth that one who acts in a way pleasing to God can minimize his enemies’
antagonism.
Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and
when he is old he will not depart from it.” However, other Scripture passages
and experience show that this is not always true. Indeed, some godly persons in
the Bible (including Job, Eli, and David) had wayward children. This proverb
does not contradict experience because it is a general principle that applies
in a general way, but allows for individual exceptions. Proverbs are not
designed to be absolute guarantees. Rather, they express truths that provide
helpful advice and guidance by which the individual should conduct his daily
life.
Proverbs are wisdom (general guides), not law (universally
binding imperatives). When the Bible declares “You shall therefore be holy, for
I am holy” (Lev. 11:45), then there are no exceptions. Holiness, goodness, love,
truth, and justice are rooted in the very nature of an unchanging God. But
wisdom literature applies God’s universal truths to life’s changing
circumstances. The results will not always be the same. Nonetheless, they are
helpful guides.